“wasted” time on lost love…

I remember how it felt, that sudden rush of butterflies literally attacking my stomach the moment I saw him. Yes, I was ready for love and there he was with kind eyes which just happen to briefly glance my way and just like that, I was smitten. The look turned to phone number exchange, to […]

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to my girls who survived…

I see you. Yes you. Back there looking down at the ground because you don’t feel like you’re worth being in this world. What happened? Who told you that? Who acted as if your existence didn’t matter? Was it your mom or dad? Was it the mean girls at school? Was it the uncle or […]

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the art of quitting…

Yes my friends, I’m dramatic. Everything about my life has a sense of drama attached to it like it was meant to be a movie.  As I currently embark yet another drastic shift in my life, I’m left thinking, “wow girl, you’re special!” Yes! Special is the only word that comes to mind because it […]

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Lessons in 34 Years…

Thirty four years seem like a long time.  In my case, after living about 5 different lives, I know a thing or to about this thing called life.  Growing up from my schooling of K-12; I attended approximately 9 different school, lived in seven cities and three different countries.  Nope, we were not a military […]

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daddy issues…

Father’s Day is always weird for me because I don’t know how to celebrate it. For years I had a sense of abandonment because my biological father was not in the picture. Yes, I have a stepfather who stepped up and assumed that role; yet, something was always missing. I spent 20+ years believing the […]

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Twenty Seventeen

End of the year. It’s always amazing to look back in a year to realize how much it changed us.  Every year comes with its ups and downs.  They come full or victories and disappointments.  The fortunate ones keep every person in their lives, while others lose some of the most important people in their […]

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